and Self Image
often how we see ourselves reflects in the relationships that we
put ourselves into. If we have no value for ourselves, we allow
others to treat us in a way that reflects that, often they say that
childhood experiences follow us into adult hood and we replicate
the situations i.e. children from alcoholic/abusive families can
seek that out on some level in their own adult relationships when
the time comes – mad though this may seem to us on a conscious
we choose our friends and partners, we have to respect that everything
is done to fulfill a positive need and if that behaviour that you
are accepting now from someone else, or are doing now yourself to
others has become unacceptable to you – change it!
are in charge of your feelings and what you will and wont put up
You are in charge of how you behave around others.
You can make the changes to your life – Nobody else can.
have the right to relationships on any level that are healthy, fulfilling
and progressive – if you have issues with how you view yourself,
how about starting with that relationship first?
are the most important person in your life, until you are happy
and content with whom you are, how can you be of benefit to others
that you care about. We all have to like ourselves as a starting
point to all other healthy relationships.
will you gain from having the relationships in your life that you
TRULY deserve? This is a great start and if you feel there is more
please get in touch with
us and see where some coaching can take you. Go on, “Let us
set you free”.